5 Questions to Ask to Help You Let Go and Grow

What holds us back from achieving our full potential?

During the summers when I worked for my dad on the orange farm, I was responsible for cleaning the irrigation lines that watered the trees. This involved running water through the lines and then opening them on both ends to get the gunk out that had built up. You see, some of the time, we used well water, and some of the time, we used ditch water. There would be mud, leaves, and even crawdads in the lines from the ditch. If you don't clean the lines, they clog up, and over time, the trees don't get the right amount of water, leading to malnourished trees. 

The same is true for achieving our full potential. We need to clean out the gunk in our minds. When we do, we have fresh, clean thoughts that are much more effective and move us forward. 

Letting go to grow is fundamental in our personal development and transformation journey. It's about releasing those mental and emotional burdens that constrain us, such as negative beliefs, limiting emotions, and misaligned values. This process is not just a step but a liberating path towards self-improvement and empowerment, encouraging us to reflect and identify what must be let go to move forward.

How do negative beliefs affect us?

Negative beliefs act as chains, limiting our movement and growth by convincing us of what we cannot achieve. These harmful narratives shape our reality, setting barriers in our minds. The challenge lies in identifying, understanding, and ultimately changing these beliefs to pave the way for a more positive and empowered self-image.

I remember when I first started this business. I didn't believe anyone would want to listen to some 35-year-old with two business failures. I didn't believe anyone would pay for coaching without credentials and 20 years of corporate experience. Six years and over 100 one-on-one clients later, I was very wrong. Thankfully. Don't let the negative beliefs stop you! 

What role do limiting emotions play in our lives?

Limiting emotions such as fear, anger, or sadness can significantly impact our mental and emotional well-being. They rattle around in our minds, taking a toll on our daily lives. By recognizing these emotions and their origins, we can begin the healing process, transforming these feelings into catalysts for growth rather than letting them dominate our experiences.

When you go through the Breakthrough Session, you learn a powerful process to release these emotions. The process helps your mind reveal the lessons these emotions and limiting beliefs are trying to teach you. Until you let go, you will not grow from these experiences. But once you do, the growth is powerful and, in some cases, miraculous in its speed and impact. 

Why is aligning our values important?

Misaligned values result in a life that feels out of sync with our true selves, leading to dissatisfaction and unhappiness. It's crucial to reassess and ensure our values align with our actions and life choices. Doing so creates a more authentic and satisfying existence, highlighting misalignment's profound impact on our fulfillment.

When I worked at a senior living facility for several months, something always felt off. Things were so out of wack in my heart and mind with the situation that I began experiencing intense pain in my feet. After quitting the job, the pain "miraculously" went away. I think we all know why. Aligning your values is fundamental to your success and health. 

How can we overcome anxiety and anticipation about the future?

Anxiety and anticipation about the future can paralyze us with fear, preventing personal growth. Learning coping mechanisms and strategies to manage this anxiety allows us to face the future with confidence rather than apprehension, turning fear of the unknown into an opportunity for growth and renewal.

Learn to break this pattern by creating a picture of what success will look like fifteen minutes after you complete the event. You get your mind set on the positive outcome instead of all the possible negative outcomes. 

If you'd like to learn more about how I help my clients grow their business by 10-30% and experience freedom from the head trash preventing powerful growth and insight, let's schedule a 15-minute get-to-know-you call and see where things go.